In/Fertility Counselling
Compassionate Support Through Your Fertility Journey
With over 20 years of experience in fertility and infertility counselling, I work closely with
fertility clinics, egg donor and surrogacy agencies—and I’ve personally walked this path myself.
I understand the emotional roller-coaster that comes with fertility challenges and treatments.
I offer specialized support to help you manage the stress of testing and treatment, strengthen
relationships, and balance work and self-care. Together, we’ll build strategies that support your
emotional well-being and help you feel more in control.
I also provide psychosocial assessments and counselling for egg, sperm, and embryo donors,
gestational carriers and implications counselling for intended parents, and those considering egg
freezing. I support adult donor-conceived individuals, offer grief counselling for those coping
with loss, and help explore alternative family-building options.
My approach is practical, solution-focused and inclusive. I help you develop coping skills,
improve communication, and navigate conflict or fear with clarity and confidence. Above all, I
offer a safe, nonjudgmental space where you feel heard, supported, and empowered.
Specialized In/Fertility Counselling offerings
Donor & Gestational Carrier Counselling
I provide Psychosocial Assessments for Egg, Sperm, and Embryo Donors, as well as Gestational
Carriers (GCs)—for both known and anonymous participants—in a safe, nonjudgmental, and
supportive space. These sessions are a required part of the fertility clinic process, but they’re also
a chance for thoughtful reflection. Together, we explore motivations for participating, emotional
and relational readiness, and any questions or concerns about the journey ahead.
For those with a known relationship to the Intended Parent(s), we look closely at what the
dynamic might be—before, during, and after the pregnancy—and how that relationship may
evolve with the future child. Topics like communication, boundaries, involvement, and long-
term expectations are openly discussed to help foster clarity and mutual understanding. The goal
is to ensure everyone feels informed, prepared, and aligned. Findings are shared with the clinic
and agency, if one is involved, to help guide responsible next steps. In some cases, additional
individual or group sessions with all involved parties may be recommended prior to finalizing
and providing the report of findings.
Intended Parent Counselling
I provide Implications Counselling for Intended Parents in a safe, nonjudgmental, and supportive
environment. These sessions are required for all Intended Parents and offer an opportunity to
explore emotional readiness, personal motivations, family history, and communication
preferences. We’ll discuss concerns, expectations, and help you gain clarity around the process.
If you’re working with a known donor or familial Gestational Carrier (GC), we’ll explore how
those relationships may evolve—before, during, and after the pregnancy—and what involvement
may look like with the future child. This space allows for meaningful reflection and informed
planning, so you feel confident and supported throughout your journey. A summary of the
session is provided to your fertility clinic and agency, if one is involved, to guide next steps. In
some cases, additional individual or group sessions with all involved parties may be
recommended prior to finalizing and providing the report of findings.
Counselling for Donor-Conceived Children and Adults
Healing, Hope, and New Beginnings
Supportive Counselling doesn’t end when pregnancy begins; it is essential through pregnancy, parenting, and even after infertility, loss, or using a donor or surrogate. Whether you’re
navigating overwhelming emotions, postpartum depression, or redefining your path without
children, compassionate care is available—you are not alone.
Benefits of In/Fertility Counselling
- Emotional Support: Safe space for exploring feelings and reducing isolation.
- Partner Alignment: Ensures couples are unified in facing challenges.
- Advanced Decision-Making: Guides informed choices, including third-party options.
- Personalized Strategies: Tailored coping techniques for individual and couple needs.
- Resource Access: Connects clients with valuable support networks.
- Helping, navigate the emotional roller coaster from a personal lens
Q1: Do all clinics require third party reproductive counselling?
Yes, most fertility clinics require third-party participants to complete Psychosocial Assessments/Implication Counselling as an initial first step.
Q2: Are the sessions confidential?
Yes. I will only provide a written report to the clinic or agency once I receive written consent by you.
Q3: Can we do this virtually?
Absolutely. All fertility counselling sessions are offered via secure Zoom.
Q4: Can counselling help with the stress of treatment cycles?
Yes, Counselling can provide coping strategies, emotional support and stress management techniques helping alleviate pressure that often accompanies treatment cycles
Q5: Can I attend even if I'm not using a clinic yet?
Yes. Whether you’re planning ahead or just exploring your options, you’re welcome to begin counselling at any time.
